The Football Academy Journey: A Parent's Guide by Marcia Lewis, Founder of No1Fan.Club
Frederik Hvillum

For parents around the world with children in elite sports pathways, the journey is filled with emotional highs and lows, complex decisions, and countless moments of pride and concern. We sat down with Marcia Lewis, founder of No1Fan.Club and mother of Arsenal player and England international Myles Lewis-Skelly, whose personal experience has made her a trusted voice in the world of youth football development.
The path through youth football academies can be as challenging for parents as it is for the young players themselves. Navigating the complex world of elite development requires not just practical knowledge, but emotional intelligence and perspective. Few people understand this balance better than those who have experienced it firsthand, and one of them is Marcia Lewis.
With nearly two decades of corporate leadership experience before founding No1Fan.Club, Lewis brings a unique combination of business acumen and personal insight to the football development landscape. Regularly consulted by media outlets and football organizations for her expertise, she has established herself as an authoritative voice on the parent journey through elite sports pathways.
Sitting across from Marcia, what immediately strikes you is the genuine passion when she talks about supporting young players. There's a wisdom that comes from having lived the journey herself – not as a passive observer, but as a mother who has experienced every emotional twist and turn alongside her son.
"The first role is to make sure the child is still enjoying it," Marcia explains with conviction. "Let's facilitate that enjoyment, and forget about anything else. Forget about what football could mean, even in terms of development. Let them enjoy it first and foremost."
This emphasis on enjoyment isn't just about happiness – it's about creating a sustainable foundation for development. Marcia has seen too many talented youngsters burn out, because the pressure overshadowed their love for the game.
"I still ask my son now if he's enjoying it, even at his level," she shares with a smile. "When he tells me 'it doesn’t really feel like a job,' that gives me a lot of satisfaction. I know that all the way along, he's genuinely loved the sport."
Understanding the English Academy System
To fully appreciate Lewis' insights, it's important to understand what we mean by "academies" in this context. In England, professional football clubs operate elite youth development systems known as academies. These are highly structured environments where talented young players train several times per week under professional coaches, with the ultimate aim of producing first-team players.
The English academy system is organized into different age groups, with formal recruitment possible from under-9s, though clubs often have pre-academy programs for even younger children. As players progress, the intensity increases, with the most critical transition coming at around age 16, when a small percentage receive "scholarship" offers – essentially the first step toward a professional contract.

This pathway, while offering extraordinary opportunities, is extremely competitive. Statistics consistently show that very few academy players will ever make a living from professional football. It's within this challenging landscape that parents must navigate how best to support their children.
Finding Balance: The Education Imperative
One of the most passionate areas of discussion with Marcia centers around education. She becomes particularly animated when addressing what she sees as critical misconceptions in the academy world.
"I don't like the phrase 'Plan B,'" she states firmly. "Education isn't a fallback plan – it's a life plan. It can be all too easy when you're in the academy environment to get wrapped up in the hype of what football could mean, and then not pay attention to your studies."
For international readers, it's important to understand that English academies typically offer educational provisions for players aged 16-18 on "scholarship" programs. These commonly take the form of BTEC qualifications (vocational qualifications) in subjects like Sports Science, which academies often present as equivalent to A-Levels (the traditional academic qualification for university entrance in the UK).
Drawing on her extensive background in organizational leadership, Marcia has identified a systemic gap in how educational pathways are presented to families in academies. Her approach combines strategic analysis of the options with a deep understanding of the emotional factors at play.
She emphasizes the importance of parents taking responsibility to thoroughly research educational options:
"Parents need to do the homework. The information is out there if you look for it. If you are being told something by an academy, you have the responsibility as a parent to check that out."
The Delicate Dance of Academy Communication
Perhaps one of the most valuable insights Lewis offers comes from her understanding of the complex relationship between parents and academies. Her professional background in corporate environments for over 20 years brings a unique perspective to navigating these institutional relationships.
"By putting your child in an academy, you're relying on the coaching team and the operational team to do their job, part of which is to support your child," explains Marcia Lewis. "We need to let them do that, though we might not always agree with their decisions or methods, especially for parents who have prior knowledge of football."
This insight into the business reality of academies is something Marcia has brought from her corporate experience. She recognized that many parents (not least herself!) were struggling with these institutional dynamics, which became a key factor in her decision to launch No1Fan.club as a resource for families.
Lewis acknowledges the power imbalance many parents feel when dealing with prestigious academies:
"Parents come from all walks of life – different countries, backgrounds, educational levels. Going in and asking for a conversation with a coach can be extremely intimidating if you've never sat in a boardroom or in a meeting in an organization before. That unfamiliarity can be overwhelming."
Her approach emphasizes empowering both parents and young players to communicate effectively:
"There's a big education process needed for helping our children with communication, and for us as parents to understand that there's a time and place for discussing concerns with a coach."
Building Resilience Through Inevitable Setbacks
When discussing the emotional challenges of the academy journey, Marcia's wealth of firsthand experience is evident. Her voice softens when she talks about helping young players through disappointments.
"If you're hoping to get to the highest level, you've got to be able to withstand disappointment," Marcia emphasizes. "Not playing is normal at the highest level. There are only 11 people per team that can be on the pitch at once."
Rather than sheltering children from these difficulties, Marcia advocates for teaching them to process and grow through challenges, from an early age:
"We have to help our kids understand that this is the nature of the game, and we have to find a way to cope with it. There's a positive in everything. Being able to say, “I'm not being picked today, let me ask for feedback so I can improve”, rather than just blaming others."
She shares a personal example of helping her son through injury:
"When he was around fifteen, he had a three-month injury period. At first, it seemed daunting – this had never happened before. But we reframed it: this was time to work on his upper body while his foot healed. He came back stronger and fitter as a result."
The Power of Visual Learning and Technology
Marcia's insights on how technology can support player development reflect her balanced approach to modern tools like video analysis. Her strategic thinking is evident in how she evaluates technological innovations not just for their technical benefits, but for their holistic impact on player development.
"Video analysis is undoubtedly where the industry is heading now," she notes. When asked about how it has helped her son, she shares: "He can watch his games back, see what he needs to improve, and it gives him confidence when he sees his progress."
Marcia emphasizes that video analysis isn't just about identifying weaknesses:
"It helps both children and parents to be objective. The technology shows the facts – you can see the benchmarks and standards clearly. This creates a shared reality about performance, that goes beyond subjective impressions."

She also explains how video helped her provide better support at home:
"I remember watching a video of my son running during pre-season. He finished last in a race and was upset. It was actually the first time I could clearly see certain physical aspects that needed attention. That helped us focus on specific areas like nutrition and conditioning."
Finding Your Tribe: The Crucial Support Network
Perhaps the most emotional moment in our conversation comes when Marcia discusses the isolation many parents feel on the academy journey. This insight led directly to her founding No1Fan.club, identifying a critical gap in the support ecosystem for families in elite sport.
"There are so many parents navigating this journey alone," she says. "You've never done this before, you want to get it right, and the only way to truly do that is by coming together as a community."
This recognition of shared challenges was the driving force behind No1Fan.club's creation. Marcia's entrepreneurial vision was to create what she couldn't find – a comprehensive support system for parents at all stages of the football development pathway.
"Standing on the sideline and making small talk with other parents isn't enough. No one shares their deepest fears or worries in that setting. And some parents aren't even there because they have other children at home, are single parents, or have work commitments."
The passion in her voice is unmistakable when she describes the support her organization provides:
"Our platform provides a community to bring parents together, whether through workshops, events, online communities, support calls or discussion forums where they can ask questions they have nowhere else to take."
A Community of Support
As our conversation draws to a close, Marcia emphasizes that parents don't need to navigate these complex waters alone. Her transition from business to founding No1Fan.club represents a thoughtful application of her commercial expertise to a deeply personal mission.
"We support parents during all stages, including through scholarship decisions and transitions out of football. We run workshops (within academies and also others that are accessible to the general public on our website), specifically designed to help with these challenging phases of the journey."
What's evident throughout our discussion is Marcia's deep commitment to supporting families, through what can be both a rewarding and challenging journey. Her insights come not just from personal experience, but from years of working with hundreds of families navigating similar paths, and from her extensive professional background in organizational leadership.
"We firmly believe that the most important thing is for parents to empower themselves with knowledge as early in the process as possible. There's no point waiting until your child is 16, 18, or 21 before trying to understand the options available (including education)."
Practical Wisdom for the Journey
Throughout our conversation, Lewis offered numerous practical insights that parents worldwide can apply, regardless of their specific sporting context:
On emotional support
"It's actually okay to be emotional if it's channeled constructively," says Marcia. "We shouldn't perpetuate the idea that 'boys don't cry.' It's fine to acknowledge your child's emotions, and comfort them appropriately."
On communication with sporting organizations
"Choose your approach carefully. I learned in my corporate career that formal communication works best for important matters. Not everyone is comfortable with this, but timing and method matter when addressing concerns."
On balancing advocacy with stepping back
"Empower your children to ask questions themselves. If they're unsure why they're playing in a certain position or not selected, encourage them to seek that feedback directly rather than the parent intervening unnecessarily. How messages are delivered is also important."
On managing expectations
"Parents' expectations need to be managed carefully as their child progresses, all the way from grassroots to elite levels," Marcia advises. "It's too easy to get carried away imagining what life as a footballer could become. Keep both your feet and your child's feet on the ground."
On educational planning
"Begin focusing on education early. Make sure your child understands that if they don't put effort into their academic qualifications, their options become significantly limited."
On building resilience
"Teach your child to seek constructive feedback, rather than blame others. This develops resilience and helps them take ownership of their development."
On perspective
"Emotional stability is crucial. After a win or a goal, celebrate appropriately but then move on – life continues. The same applies to setbacks."
To learn more about Marcia Lewis' approach and the No1Fan. Club, watch a video of one of the workshops here.